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My new catch 'chewed' me silly then disappeared? What do I do?

3 months ago, 16 Apr 10:54

By: Dr Cupid

He pulled back after I slept with him

I met a guy four months ago and we started going out. The first two months were great. We went out at least twice every week. I thought he wanted a serious relationship so I agreed to sleep with him. After two months he started dodging me. He doesn’t ask to see me anymore and doesn’t call or text. When I contact him he seems withdrawn. I don’t know what to do because he hasn’t broken up with me either. Esther 

Dear Esther,

You are being unrealistic. He hasn’t broken up with you because he is hoping that he will just ignore you until you get the hint that he is not interested in the affair. He is a fox and a coward. Forget about him.

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Dear Elsie,

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Dear Sharon,

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My new catch 'chewed' me silly then disappeared? What do I do?

3 months ago, 16 Apr 10:54

By: Dr Cupid

He pulled back after I slept with him

I met a guy four months ago and we started going out. The first two months were great. We went out at least twice every week. I thought he wanted a serious relationship so I agreed to sleep with him. After two months he started dodging me. He doesn’t ask to see me anymore and doesn’t call or text. When I contact him he seems withdrawn. I don’t know what to do because he hasn’t broken up with me either. Esther 

Dear Esther,

You are being unrealistic. He hasn’t broken up with you because he is hoping that he will just ignore you until you get the hint that he is not interested in the affair. He is a fox and a coward. Forget about him.

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Hi, I’m a 26-year-old lady and my boyfriend is 29. He is friendly and has a lot of friends, most of them women. I don’t have a problem with him having a lot of female friends but he is too friendly with them and I have seen him flirting with them at times. I don’t think it is appropriate for him to do such things because he has a girlfriend but I haven’t raised a finger because I don’t want to be the annoying type. What should I do?Elsie

Dear Elsie,

It is sad how women put up with bad behaviour out of fear of being labelled ‘annoying girlfriend’. If something bothers you, you have every right to speak up. If you feel like your boyfriend’s behaviour is unbearable, you should definitely speak out. 

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