Ladies, Its A Mental Game Before Its A Physical One...5 Ways On How To Keep Him Turned On - ZUMI
10 months ago, 7 Mar 01:02
It is easy to assume that you can just get naked in front of a man or turn up at his door on booty call hours and expect that he will just want to sleep with you. In some cases, it will work but if your in a relationship that will only work when it’s spontaneous. The effort to keep him turned on will be about getting him mentally and emotionally stimulated. Here are five ways on how you can do so: Men predominantly operate on an ego-stroking basis, so do tell him how sexy you find him when his passionately talking about what he loves doing or compliment him on how good he looks when he’s heading to work. This will not only make him feel good and boost his confidence but it will keep you ringing in his mind all day and keep him excited to see you again. Think of sex as a theatrical play, where the mood, lighting and scene must be set. Keep your place clean and tidy, invest in scented candles to keep the room smelling good, sultry music to add to the good vibes and at times let him find you home, dressed in a negligee. After a long day, you will definitely make coming home worth his while. Create an environment where you just talk over a romantic dinner or even when sat on the couch with soulful music playing in the background. As he talks, be attentive and engaging, share your stories too and just enjoy each other’s company. These moments will always end up being the best and happy moments, for the time spent will always be so organic. I am all for being miss independent but another way to satisfy him beyond just the bedroom is remind him that he is needed in your life. Let him open that sauce jar when your struggling in the kitchen or go to him to zip up your dress even though it’s easy to do so. Let him be the man he wants to be for you and learn to be the woman that keeps his desires going, but strike the balance of being independent and dependent. When you are out in public occasionally touch him, when talking to him sometimes whisper something naughty in his ear and when you’re ready to go home just sultry dance with him and keep the eye contact going. In no time the drinks will be paid for and you will be on your way home much to the disappointments of your friends. Intimacy will require you to be vulnerable and honest, but when in a long-term relationship spontaneity and consistency is what will keep you both attracted to each other.
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