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Don't Get Catfished! Three Women Share With Us There Experiences - ZUMI

9 months ago, 12 Mar 08:43

By: Lush Angela

Sikuizi looking for love and finding love can come with a serious case of lies and deception and if your not careful you might find yourself dating an imposter. So get in the habit of vetting before you take it too far. Here are a few reasons why: *Nduta, 24 I had just gotten my first pay check and to celebrate I went out with my girls, thats when i met Derrick. He was cute, dressed in a suit and was out with his boys too. When I went to the bar to order my drink, he came over and told the bartender that the bill is on him. I told him that I had ordered drinks not just for me but for my friends too and told him its ok he doesn’t need to pay. He then told me not to worry that he’s got this, so I humbly accepted his gesture and then talked to him for a bit. He eventually came later and joined us with his friends too. We danced and vibed all night, then when heading home we exchanged numbers. We continued to talk and eventually met up for coffee, then our coffee meet ups turned to lunches and would often meet up for dinner too. He was very mature, seemed to have his life in order and all seemed too good to be true. After like three weeks of knowing each other, he picked me up for dinner and as we were busy enjoying each others company at the restaurant, a lady walked past him, recognising him, she stopped to say hi. When she noticed me she immediately asked about the wellbeing of his kids and mentioned his wife’s name too. My face was in utter shock and she realized that she had dropped the lid, and quickly said she will give his wife a call and arrange for them to come over for lunch one of the days, then she walked off. While I was still in shock he began with his excuses, saying that he meant to tell me that they were having problems in their marriage and was thinking of leaving his wife. I told him that I didn’t sign up for such a situation and I was so embarassed that someone had thought I was that type of person. I told him that it was wrong of him to mislead me and he should have just been honest in the first place because he had put me in a very uncomfortable position. I took to my phone and called a cab, I then told him to never call me again and left immediately.  Derrick completely blind sided me and I can honestly say I never saw it coming. I don’t have much experience when it comes to dating because my life up to this point had been so much about school and getting my dream job, so much so that I had no time for dating. Right now I feel ...
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