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8 months ago, 8 Mar 01:05

By: Lush Angela

Don’t be so concerned about what he drives but rather what drives him. Is he ambitious? Is he talking about his dreams and doing something about them? Are the fruits of his labour evident, for instance, him getting a promotion or even being able to move out of his house or afford that car he’s been eyeing? Does his ambition, and drive also motivate you to stay focused on you achieving too? You want to invest in a relationship that has the potential of having a bright future and this can only happen if you are with someone who matches your drive and ambition. He will also drive you to do better and be better. Be the woman who is ok to lose out in love than be the woman who is loving a loser, doing so will mean you will avoid being in a stagnant relationship. When you meet someone let love be the end result, let it be a meeting of minds. We get it so wrong when we make it all about feelings, feelings are misleading for through them you end up misjudging someone’s character for your so blinded by what you feel that you fail to see the flaws they possess that are of a hindrance to you and your future. To avoid spending time with a time waster, learn to look at a relationship like you would a business. Assess what you’re both bringing into the relationship, if there is an imbalance where you find yourself doing more than he is and after while that has not changed, then consider that to be an indication that this will be a pattern in your relationship as you continue forth.
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Better To Lose A Lover Than Love A Loser...Yay or Nah? - ZUMI

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