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7 Things Every Woman Goes Through During A Dry Spell - ZUMI

1 months ago, 9 Nov 14:12

By: Vanessa Waithira

You’re either on a dry spell because you just came out of a relationship or simply because you have chosen to be celibate. It all starts out very well where you’re confident that everything will go well and you’re happy that you don’t have to think about STDs or getting pregnant.

Unfortunately, after some time you get into a sexually frustrated time and you can almost bet you are going mad. Here are things every woman goes through during a sexual dry spell.

When you got on this journey you felt strong and like you didn’t need any man. Now that you have chosen this path you wonder why men are not flirting with you and when they do you get annoyed because all they want is sex. At this point, all you do is feel sorry for yourself and try to maintain a healthy state of mind.

It is quite stressful because you notice every sex scene in everything you watch. This is the time you may also have a lot of sexual thoughts and find yourself daydreaming about sex. I would advise you watch cartoons and programs that are rated friendly, you are not strong enough for sexual scenes.

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You tend to think about the good old days when you were a sexual being and now you just miss those days.

Image: Black Angel Cards

You may feel liberated because you don’t have to think about getting pregnant or the emotional complications of having sex. This is the time you feel like you can become a nun and the time you swear to only have sex with the right guy.

Image: HelloGiggles

They talk about orgasms and never ask you for your opinion because now all of a sudden you are no longer a member of the sexual community. Before you know it you listen to people’s stories but you are never a contributor.

Image: No Sugar No Cream Mag

Sometimes you may even think of texting him and just beg him for sex. But if you still haven’t tried to call or seduce him, please remember why you broke up and hold off from him.

Image: R. Eric Thomas

You may find yourself masturbating a lot more than you ever did and if the thirst has gotten you real bad you may end up buying yourself a sex toy just to have a healthy mental state.

Image: Gfycat

We must admit that not getting laid can be quite a struggle. We all have sexual needs but if you have chosen to stay celibate for whatever reason then please continue with your sexual fast until you’re ready to have sex again.


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7 Things Every Woman Goes Through During A Dry Spell - ZUMI

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You’re either on a dry spell because you just came out of a relationship or simply because you have chosen to be celibate. It all starts out very well where you’re confident that everything will go well and you’re happy that you don’t have to think about STDs or getting pregnant.

Unfortunately, after some time you get into a sexually frustrated time and you can almost bet you are going mad. Here are things every woman goes through during a sexual dry spell.

When you got on this journey you felt strong and like you didn’t need any man. Now that you have chosen this path you wonder why men are not flirting with you and when they do you get annoyed because all they want is sex. At this point, all you do is feel sorry for yourself and try to maintain a healthy state of mind.

It is quite stressful because you notice every sex scene in everything you watch. This is the time you may also have a lot of sexual thoughts and find yourself daydreaming about sex. I would advise you watch cartoons and programs that are rated friendly, you are not strong enough for sexual scenes.

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You tend to think about the good old days when you were a sexual being and now you just miss those days.

Image: Black Angel Cards

You may feel liberated because you don’t have to think about getting pregnant or the emotional complications of having sex. This is the time you feel like you can become a nun and the time you swear to only have sex with the right guy.

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They talk about orgasms and never ask you for your opinion because now all of a sudden you are no longer a member of the sexual community. Before you know it you listen to people’s stories but you are never a contributor.

Image: No Sugar No Cream Mag

Sometimes you may even think of texting him and just beg him for sex. But if you still haven’t tried to call or seduce him, please remember why you broke up and hold off from him.

Image: R. Eric Thomas

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Image: Gfycat

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