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4 Sad Signs You're Only A Booty-call - ZUMI

2 months ago, 12 Oct 14:25

By: Jahawi Chieng

BTW, we are not against the concept of booty calls and all that. If both partners are consenting and know what they’ve signed up for then that’s between you two and it’s none of my business. However, it seems as though women can’t see the forest for the trees inside the booty call at times. Sigh…  So here are a few red flags to help clarify your status with him so that you don’t make a fool of yourself ( You’re welcome).

The only time you will ever hear from him or even meet up with him, is when he wants to get in your pants. Anything other than that, he doesn’t seem to be bothered by what you do or who you spend your time with. As long as you give him pussy, he’s good. Any other conversation that doesn’t involve sex, feels awkward and uncomfortable. Yes, he seems charming and sweet; but that’s just as far as it goes.

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Not only does he bolt after sex, but he also avoids any conversation that involves ” taking the relationship” to the next level. He’s not at all concerned about losing you. You are LITERALLY the last thing on his mind. He doesn’t introduce you to his family and closest friends. And if you ever find yourself in the company of him and his friends are always skeptical around you, and you will realize that they don’t take you seriously. They make jokes and patronize you because they know that, you are just a fling. He doesn’t text or call and he immediately  avoids you when he starts to sense that you need someone to talk to and confide in.

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Whenever you two meet up, it’s only about sex. Nothing more, nothing less. Guys figure, there’s no need to share information that hasn’t been requested. If you don’t ask about his other women, then apparently you don’t care—and since you two are not exclusive, why bring it up?

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If the only thing that goes on in your mind when you think about him, is when you’ll see him again so that he can give you a good pounding. . .  and vice versa. If nothing else comes up, this just means that you’re only attracted to his sex. You already know what this means sis. .

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If you might be the booty call and what ya’ll got going on is fine witchu, then you good baby. He’s likely to stay just the way it is, until one of you finds someone else. However, if you’ve got mad mad love for the nigga and you want more than just the sex, the be real with yourself and let that MAN GO.


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4 Sad Signs You're Only A Booty-call - ZUMI

2 months ago, 12 Oct 14:25

By: Jahawi Chieng

BTW, we are not against the concept of booty calls and all that. If both partners are consenting and know what they’ve signed up for then that’s between you two and it’s none of my business. However, it seems as though women can’t see the forest for the trees inside the booty call at times. Sigh…  So here are a few red flags to help clarify your status with him so that you don’t make a fool of yourself ( You’re welcome).

The only time you will ever hear from him or even meet up with him, is when he wants to get in your pants. Anything other than that, he doesn’t seem to be bothered by what you do or who you spend your time with. As long as you give him pussy, he’s good. Any other conversation that doesn’t involve sex, feels awkward and uncomfortable. Yes, he seems charming and sweet; but that’s just as far as it goes.

Image: GIPHY

Not only does he bolt after sex, but he also avoids any conversation that involves ” taking the relationship” to the next level. He’s not at all concerned about losing you. You are LITERALLY the last thing on his mind. He doesn’t introduce you to his family and closest friends. And if you ever find yourself in the company of him and his friends are always skeptical around you, and you will realize that they don’t take you seriously. They make jokes and patronize you because they know that, you are just a fling. He doesn’t text or call and he immediately  avoids you when he starts to sense that you need someone to talk to and confide in.

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Whenever you two meet up, it’s only about sex. Nothing more, nothing less. Guys figure, there’s no need to share information that hasn’t been requested. If you don’t ask about his other women, then apparently you don’t care—and since you two are not exclusive, why bring it up?

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If the only thing that goes on in your mind when you think about him, is when you’ll see him again so that he can give you a good pounding. . .  and vice versa. If nothing else comes up, this just means that you’re only attracted to his sex. You already know what this means sis. .

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If you might be the booty call and what ya’ll got going on is fine witchu, then you good baby. He’s likely to stay just the way it is, until one of you finds someone else. However, if you’ve got mad mad love for the nigga and you want more than just the sex, the be real with yourself and let that MAN GO.


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