Wondering Whether You're The Side chick? Here Are Some Signs - ZUMI
1 weeks ago, 15:12
For some reason, a lot of the men out there can’t seem to keep it 100 about their relationships, lack of, or whether or not they want to be committed. They think they’ve gotten clever and have mastered the art of keeping their girlfriends and side chicks separate without either finding out about the other.
It’s safe to say that women have learned from the best, and men aren’t as smart as they think. You can tell if you’re ‘man’ is seeing someone else, or worse, if you are the side dish and not his main squeeze. If you can’t, here are a few signs that should get you packing hunnie!
Well, boyfriends buy their girlfriends things all the time, but your ‘man’ will use this as a distraction from the real things that are you are supposed to be getting from being in a relationship.
Hell no, what if one of his girlfriend’s girls’ sees him in public getting cosy with another woman? He really wants to avoid that drama. So no hand holding, no kissing, no nothing.
No, he’s not necessarily being cute. He’s just scared he might call you the wrong name, yikes!
This is because he doesn’t want to be seen in public with you. Oh, and about the PDA, this is where all the affection will be brought out, and you’ll definitely feel special at that moment.
If he doesn’t take you out a lot and just wants to ‘chill’ you should ask yourself why. A man who wants to be with you will take you out even though it’s not ALL weekends. He’s hiding you gurl!
He won’t stay over at your place and vice versa. If he has a family, be sure he has to report home at some point in the night. And if he has a girlfriend, she might pop up at his house any time and God forbid you are found at his house at an odd time.
You wish he could apply this consistency in the nitty gritties of a relationship. This is probably because he’s usually with his girlfriend (or wife, or children *gasp*) at that time and well, who are you? Nobody to him compared to the important people in his life.
In this world of social media, it’s impossible to not take a photo (or twenty) when you’re out somewhere. If you’re the side, he will avoid taking any photos with you and mostly on his phone. You probably aren’t even on any of his social media in the first place.
This is usually mostly reserved for the girlfriend. Of course, you can’t be invited for the family gatherings because he wants to avoid the ‘who’s that’ question since everyone probably knows his girlfriend.
If he does pick up your call, he’ll sound very awkward and you definitely won’t hear him call you any of those pet names he seems to love. Hmmm.
There are two things involved when you’re a side chick. You either know you’re a side chick or you have no clue ...
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