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Single? Wanna Get Booed Up? Start The Right Way With These 10 Dating Rules! - ZUMI

9 months ago, 13 Mar 00:15

By: Lush Angela

You’re single now and have been for a while but are looking to get back into dating. You want to avoid the mistakes of the past, so here are simple rules that will get you having fun, staying focused on finding the ideal partner as well as the right and healthy kind of love. Deal breakers are what are you not willing to compromise on because it will take you away from your principles and believes. They are usually centered on religion, family, career, personality, it could even be about how untidy they are or their basic hygiene. If you don’t know what they are, spend time identifying them before going on a date so you don’t waste time with someone who doesn’t have at least your basic deal breakers covered. Its ok to impress him but if lies are at the core of your foundation they will exist as your relationship proceeds. Do what feels right, for instance, if you want to call him do it or if you want to ask him out every once in a while do so or alternatively saying no to dates without feeling guilty. Keep him guessing and on his toes, let him miss you and prove the theory right that absence does indeed make the heart grow fonder. Your instincts won’t fail you, so learn to pay attention to the red flags and act accordingly. If you know who you are then you will know what you will not stand for and therefore won’t stick around if you’re not treated as you feel you deserve to be. Be open-hearted and remove your past hurt out of the way. Don’t be drawn into thinking that the past will happen again with this new dating experience, give it a fair a chance. Be vulnerable and emotionally available. Avoid excessive drinking at the early stages of dating because alcohol can affect your judgment and you can easily confuse the connection. Just like alcohol, sex too can confuse matters and change the perception of who you are. Ultimately a man’s goal will be to sleep with you and many are happy to patiently wait. However the longer you wait on giving up the cookie, you give time for his true characteristics to come out and if its someone who doesn’t meet your ideals then you will avoid increasing your body count. Be engaging, be attentive, ask questions which will show you’re taking an interest in what he is sharing with you and make the effort to look nice and presentable. Be the kind of date that your date desires to see again. Release the pressure you have and stop already making him Baba Nani just after the first date. Enjoy your dates, take them one date a time and let things progress organically. When dating you don’t owe your date anything other than honesty on whether he is someone you would be happy to continue seeing and if it’s not, then the right thing to do is be honest ...
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Single? Wanna Get Booed Up? Start The Right Way With These 10 Dating Rules! - ZUMI

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