It's Over! 5 Practical Ways On How To Move On Positively - ZUMI
4 months ago, 27 Feb 12:51
Your ‘IT’ relationship is now over and you’re feeling down in the dumps. Laughing about it and having your heart fully mended feels more like a far-fetched idea than a soon to be living reality. When you’ve come to the point of acceptance, the next best step is to practically move on and discover what the future has in store for you. Below are five practical ways on how you can positively move on: Get your sexy back and change up your look. You could revive your wardrobe with some new trendy items, maybe even get that popping lipstick shade you’ve always been scared to try or better yet go the whole nine yards cut your hair or do a new style that screams change. When you change up how you look, you automatically change up how you feel and it’s a way to remind yourself that beauty never left you. Compliments also begin to pour in, which is always a great pick me up after a breakup. Book a solo trip or girls trip to a beautiful destination be it locally or out of the country. Choose a location where you will experience a new culture, meet people and learn new things. Travelling is good for the soul and what better way to reflect and plan for the future while on the beach. Break-ups always leave a void, because often your life becomes about “we” and you somewhere along the way forget “you”. Time to take back the wheel in your life and redirect your steps. The best way to do that is to start setting goals of what you want to achieve and making a plan of how to do so. This will be like a new lease on life and a chance to channel your energies in the right direction. Now that you have more time to yourself, pick up a new hobby like writing, making jewellery or even pick up a new sport like kickboxing or going to the gym more. All these are positive distractions that lead you to discover another side to you that you might not have known about and it could also double up as a new way of meeting and connecting with people. You can never really know how a break up will affect you but before moving onto the next, sometimes it is advisable to make sure that all is well internally. A great option is talking to a professional about how the break up has made you feel and unclog the pipes so to speak. You have to deal with any underlying issues to avoid carrying them onto your next relationship. “Everyday is a new day, and you will never be able to find happiness if you don’t move on.” Carrie Underwood.
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