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5 Guaranteed Ways Of Getting Your Ex Back - ZUMI

2 months ago, 13 June 14:02

By: Vanessa Waithira

You need to be sure that you want him back and not because he broke up with you but because you genuinely believe he is the one for you. Do you know your worth? Does he deserve you? After you have evaluated and you’re sure then you can be sure that these guaranteed ways of getting your ex back will help you.

You need to cut him off to get results. It is risky but this is the only way he will actually miss you and it is also time for you to get stronger and become independent. It is advised that you should ignore this guy for at least four weeks without any form of contact for it to hit home. Guys usually think you can’t live without them and that is the worst kind of guy because he will want to walk in and out of your life as he pleases. After you cut him off for some time, he will try get in contact if he really loved you.

Image: Keep Calm-o-Matic

Just because you want him back does not give him the right to treat you in whatever way he wants. Don’t bend over backwards for him even if you’re the one who ended the relationship. Let him know that you have standards and you will not accept trashy behavior.

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During this time you need to be working on yourself. Get healthier, get in great shape and do it for yourself. It usually takes a longer time for a breakup to hit a man, they usually feel liberated in the beginning yet that is the time you’re crying yourself to sleep. Don’t worry, it will get better and when you’re in a better place he will now be getting weaker.

Image: Giphy

Be positive and not needy. No one want’s someone who keeps nagging for attention, everyone respects someone who has her own life going and most importantly respects herself.

Image: R. Eric Thomas

Because this is a possibility, you might not actually get back together and you know what? It is okay. A man also needs to realize that you can move on and someone else can swoop you off your feet if he doesn’t start acting right.

If you really want this man back I suggest that you pray and ask God for His direction. Make sure you’re getting yourself back into something stable, some time apart is good as it builds you. You should not need a man you should want a man. Eventually after some time you should organize to meet your ex and if he agrees you can talk and see if you’re on the same page. If he doesn’t accept your advances then please toss him on the side.


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By: Vanessa Waithira

You need to be sure that you want him back and not because he broke up with you but because you genuinely believe he is the one for you. Do you know your worth? Does he deserve you? After you have evaluated and you’re sure then you can be sure that these guaranteed ways of getting your ex back will help you.

You need to cut him off to get results. It is risky but this is the only way he will actually miss you and it is also time for you to get stronger and become independent. It is advised that you should ignore this guy for at least four weeks without any form of contact for it to hit home. Guys usually think you can’t live without them and that is the worst kind of guy because he will want to walk in and out of your life as he pleases. After you cut him off for some time, he will try get in contact if he really loved you.

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Just because you want him back does not give him the right to treat you in whatever way he wants. Don’t bend over backwards for him even if you’re the one who ended the relationship. Let him know that you have standards and you will not accept trashy behavior.

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During this time you need to be working on yourself. Get healthier, get in great shape and do it for yourself. It usually takes a longer time for a breakup to hit a man, they usually feel liberated in the beginning yet that is the time you’re crying yourself to sleep. Don’t worry, it will get better and when you’re in a better place he will now be getting weaker.

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Be positive and not needy. No one want’s someone who keeps nagging for attention, everyone respects someone who has her own life going and most importantly respects herself.

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