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"I'm Breaking Up With You! I Got Another Woman Pregnant!" Here's Lisa's Story - ZUMI

7 months ago, 27 Feb 13:51

By: Lush Angela

“I am breaking up with you!” can often leave you like feeling you’re in the boxing ring with Tyson and he has knocked you out one last time with the biggest blow. Sadly, this was one woman’s fate and she shares with us the process she took to heal from what ended up being the biggest heartbreak she ever endured. Here is Lisa’s story: It was a Friday night and I had just come back from a Europe tour. After being a way for a period of three weeks, I could not wait to meet up with my boyfriend. Unfortunately he was unable to pick me up, he said he had been held up at work but luckily he organized for a cab to pick me. So after settling back in from the airport, I called him with so much zest for life, however he sounded a bit low. We talked for a bit but he seemed detached, and innocently I told him how detached he sounded and asked him what was the matter. At first, he began by pretending that his just tired from work but I told him it sounded much more than that and when I began insisting that I will come over for us to talk, he then told me “Lisa, I am breaking up with you. I got Fifi pregnant and we are keeping the baby.” Everything from that point up to now is still a blur all I remember is saying nothing and seating on the couch numb, unable to talk and hearing him on the other end shouting my name to check If I was still on the line. I hang up the phone and I don’t think I moved from my couch for the rest of the night. I had a lot of flashbacks that night, of us, of who I had believed him to be and worse yet my relationship with Fifi.  Fifi was his friend from work, it was a nickname we had for her, but her name was Fiona. When Paul and I got together they were work buddies and it was really clear that they were just that, well at least thats what I thought. When Fifi moved jobs they saw each other less but in the process me and her got closer and there was running joke between us that she had now swapped friends. Now if ever there was a time where I was caught off guard, this was definitely that day. I could not make head or tail of what Paul had just told me. I remember that weekend just switching off my phone, staying indoors and just crying majority of the time. I was truly reminded that indeed the first love is the sweetest but the first cut is the deepest. After a couple of weeks of ignoring the both of them and just giving myself time to adjust to the shock, I chose to ask them both to meet me for coffee. I remember ...
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