#DirtyThirty - Stop Acting Desperate And Stay Prepared, For Love Will Find You! - ZUMI
5 months ago, 17 Apr 06:05
Society says your 30 now why are you not married? Your Auntie says I met this lovely man whom I think would be a lovely match for you when are your free so I can arrange for you both to meet she then asks. Your agemates are constantly sharing about the great progress in their relationships. Every day sounds more like a clock going tick tock. If you dwell so much on all of that and more you can easily become desperate and instead of focusing on being a suitable partner you begin to hunt for one. The problem with this is you might make a home with one who was never meant to even have a scene in your life. It’s time to stop acting desperate! Here are three reasons why: Men love to chase if you chase them then you make the “kill” easy, so to speak. However, if you allow yourself to be hunted not only will it be more enjoyable for both of you but you will also be more in control of the rules of the game. You’re single it’s time to get in touch with you and do all the things you would love to do before the interference of another. It becomes a lot harder when in a relationship and furthermore if kids are involved. How your life panned out for your mother or grandmother is very different to how it is for you now. You not being married before 30 does not make you any less of a woman just means your journey is different. Take your time, do you and when love is ripe and ready it will find you unexpectedly like a thief in the night.
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