#DirtyThirty - Say Bye To F***Boys And Hi To A Man Worthy Of Your Time, Here is How! - ZUMI
6 months ago, 12 Mar 08:43
You’ve probably at this point in your life had your fair share of both good and bad dating experiences. You’re currently single and looking to get booed up but are tired of mistaking he that is for you with he that is just looking to waste your time. I have outlined the various types of men, so you can easily recognize the time wasters in your life and learn to settle on he who sees your worth and at the same time matches it too. At this point in your life, you have had a vast dating experience and your 30s are about you being grown and wise in your choices. You can’t be with a man that is more about his dreams than doing something about it. It’s important to listen to him but it is more important to see his actions speaking louder. All these men have one thing in common they are all currently on a journey of being ready for what’s real and true. The players and the f***boy are just after sleeping with as many women and often within a short space of time. So if you give in too quickly, they will get their fix and move on unexpectedly on your part. If you’re not careful you will only end up as just another woman on his list, worse thing is he might not even remember you existed. As for confused men they don’t usually know if they are coming or going. They are often in limbo and can never really give a concrete answer or make a decision on their direction in life. They always lack the clarity you’re looking for and if you mingle with this type of man you will be caught up in his confused mix. This is the man that you should give your time to. You will know him by his character, he will be consistent in his pursuit, he will be focused on his career and goals and despite the women flocking at him, he will still be clear about the woman he is pursuing and won’t just choose anyone. Also what will begin to be clear is that your vision and his goals will be aligned, and he will be intentional about making sure he is spending time with you. In time his purpose in your life will become clear but I’ll say this, If it gives you peace to be in his company then let that be the measure of you knowing you’re on the right track. Many of us will be in relationships that were only for one season because of desperation to run down the aisle. It is important to take your time to know him, and the beauty about giving things time is the clarity of whether he’s for one season or meant for all season will, in the end, come to light.
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